P: It’s really hard for me to come during oral sex. I wish I could. I used to be able to, but for the past five years it’s been difficult. I don't know why. It feels really great anyway, but still when a guy is going down on me and I can’t come, I keep wondering what’s wrong with me. Then I think about it and then I feel all this pressure to have an orgasm instead of just going on and enjoying the moment. I get frustrated, but maybe only for fear the guy won't be gratified. I want to give him the I-made-her-come gold medal. urghhhh...
TFC: When's the last time you looked at your vulva?
P: This morning. I look at her all the time.
TFC: What does your vulva look like to you?
P: My vulva specifically...she looks like a little animal. A little penis eating animal. She's got a little mouth with some hair. Definitely a mammal.
TFC: Do you have a name for her?
P: I call her my pussy. I would like to name her something more specific; maybe I'll call herpeony.
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